“Truth for the feminine changes from moment to moment. That is not because she is lying but because her truth depends on her feeling in the moment. A woman with a feminine essence is all over the place emotionally. Just because a woman says she doesn’t want to do something doesn’t mean she really doesn’t want to do it. It is how she feels in the moment. But when a man can do something to change her feelings, she may want to do it the next moment.
One of the greatest gifts the masculine can give the feminine is his capacity to open her heart when it is closed, by changing her feelings at will. The feminine heart and body are free to be moved by love, and by life itself. Since memory is tied to emotion and the emotion of the feminine is tied to the present moment, past and future is irrelevant to a woman. A man’s mistake is as easily forgotten as his successes. He can always create love and happiness with her in the present moment. Do whatever it takes to crack the shell of her closure, get your love inside that crack and touch her heart.
Truth for the masculine is fixed and constant. Once a man knows what he wants, his choices tend to remain the same throughout time. A man is his word. A man has to know what he wants and be sure of his decision. The feminine is attracted to the masculine whose truth is so strong that she cannot succeed in shaking or shifting him away from it no matter what she does, and therefore she can trust and yield to him. The feminine is always testing the masculine to see if he will always act from his deepest truth, and when he proves to be such a person, she has no choice but to surrender herself to his direction. A woman desires a man who knows what he is doing.”